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            <h1 class="post-title">人和人性</h1>
            
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                        Date: <a href="#">May 15, 2023&nbsp;&nbsp;0:00:00</a>
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<p>​        作者：三毛</p>
<p>　　我最喜欢别人将我看成傻瓜。这样与人相处起来就方便多了。</p>
<p>　　我不劝任何人任何事。</p>
<p>　　其实，每一个人对自己的作为只是假装糊涂而已。</p>
<p>　　对一个恶人，退让，结果使他得寸进尺。</p>
<p>　　对一个傻子，夸奖，结果使他得意忘形。</p>
<p>　　世界上最公平的事在于：聪明人洋洋自得，糊涂人也不认为自己差到哪儿去。</p>
<p>　　社会上最不公平的看法就是：摆在眼前的是一个自私自利、毫无良知，随时随处麻烦他人，占尽一切便宜的小人。一般人们只将这类人称为“不懂事”。而对待一个胸襟宽厚、善待他人、凡事退让，而且心存悲悯、乐于助人的真诚君子，一般人说起来只得一句：“这个人嘛！不过是会做人而已。”</p>
<p>　　“平凡人”和“枯燥人”绝对是两种人。大部分枯燥人都夸说自己平平凡凡。</p>
<p>　　最令人惧怕的一类人，在于性格的不明显。在这件模糊的外衣之下，隐藏着的内在人格又是什么呢？</p>
<p>　　好邻居重要，好亲戚也重要。将亲戚请来做邻居，往往亲戚和邻居都成仇人。</p>
<p>　　化妆有助气色，无助气质。有家产和有家教没有太大关系。</p>
<p>　　从容不迫的举止，比起咄咄逼人的态度，更能令人心折。</p>
<p>　　人情冷暖正如花开花谢，不如将这种现象，想成一场必然的季节更替。</p>
<p>　　如果我们能够做得到将丈夫当成好朋友，将朋友看成手足，将手足当成自己真正的手和脚，将子女看成父母，将父母看成心爱的子女……这些人际关系，可能就不是目前的这个局面了。</p>
<p>　　问题在于：谁会这么颠三倒四地去做傻瓜？</p>
<p>　　做过上千次人性实验之后，对于任何一次必然重演的失败，都抱着一种信念——起码这个实验又做了一次。</p>
<p>　　婴儿诞生，一般人并不知道婴儿的未来，可是都说——恭喜！恭喜！</p>
<p>　　某人死了，一般人也不明白死后的世界，却说——可惜！可惜！</p>

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